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Sexy Gift Ideas are a dime a dozen at the moment of the year 2019, and the concern is that a lot of options are unbelievably boring. They’re packed with same gimmicky gifts which you know are likely to end up sitting unopened, being regifted, or getting thrown out with the tinsel. Your man doesn’t need an additional pair of shoes. Your best friend doesn’t need a different coffee mug. Nobody needs those damn whiskey rocks. Try out something new this coming year, and add spice to your holiday gift ideas with sexy presents that can bring real and long-lasting pleasure to your friends and family? Who says special occasions end up being G-rated?
Giving a sexy gift is not that strange if you think about it. We’re all so crazed, stressed, depressed, and anxious around this time of the year, that we could all benefit from slowing down, getting more in touch with our bodies, and spending quality alone time with our partners. A potential orgasm is just the icing on the cake.
This gift guide is filled with flirty, sensual, arousing, and downright hot gifts for the most important people on your list. And don’t worry — it’s not all just vibrators. I have suggested a couple of my favorite sex toys, but there are also plenty of gifts to sneakily introduce the idea of pleasure and enjoyment. Here are my picks for the sexiest gifts for girlfriends, boyfriends, friends, and even, yourself.
Table of Content
- 1 For Your Girlfriend Who Loves Lingerie
- 2 For Your Friend Who’s Never Had an Orgasm
- 3 For Your Best Guy Friend
- 4 For Your Roommate Who’s Always Hooking Up
- 5 For Your Friend Who’s Never Had an Orgasm
- 6 For Your Single and Ready-to-Mingle Bestie
- 7 For Your Mom (Yes, Your Mom)
- 8 For Your Longterm Love
- 9 Sexy Gift Ideas For Yourself
For Your Girlfriend Who Loves Lingerie
For Your Friend Who’s Never Had an Orgasm
Has your BFF been open with you about the fact that she has never been able to orgasm? Be her orgasm cheerleader by getting her one of my favorite toys for women, the Mini Wearable Vibrator…
For Your Best Guy Friend
You may not be sleeping with them, but why not invest in helping your guy friends become considerate and skillful in the sack? One of my favorite book recommendations is She Comes First by Ian Kerner. This should be required reading for every straight man.
She Comes First, Amazon
Another great idea is a condom sampler from Lucky Bloke. This company is out to change the world by making condoms more comfortable and pleasurable.
Condom Sampler, Amazon
If he’s gay, take a peek at the Warwick Rowers 2016 calendar. The pictures are hot, and 10 percent of the proceeds go to their charity Sport Allies, which combats “bullying, homophobia, and low self-esteem” in the gay community.
Warwick Rowers 2016 Calendar, Amazon
For Your Roommate Who’s Always Hooking Up
This massage oil candle takes care of two things at once.
LELO Massage Candle Amazon
or Bonk, a hilarious book about sex research by Mary Roach, is another relatively innocent choice.
Even if you want to try something a little more risque, you can get them an inexpensive cock ring vibrator.
Tenga Vi-Bo Cock Ring Amazon
For Your Friend Who’s Never Had an Orgasm
Or a PC exerciser like the Elvie Kegel Exerciser.
Elvie Kegel Exerciser, Amazon
For Your Single and Ready-to-Mingle Bestie
Want your gift to include some quality time together? Sign both of you up for a confidence-boosting striptease class.
Or a burlesque one!
If you have a group of friends, have everyone come along to a private workshop at Babeland.
Or sign the crew up for an aphrodisiac cooking class.
For Your Mom (Yes, Your Mom)
You don’t need to buy mom a vibrator to help her get in touch with her sensual side. Massage oil is a great gift to give. Fox Envy also has some great options.
Bundle your picks with a teakwood and tobacco candle for the ultimate sensual indulgence.
For Your Longterm Love
There are also tons of fun bondage accessories you can use together, like these sophisticated handcuffs from Crave.
Leather cuffs, Amazon
Perhaps the most obvious X-rated gift option is a vibrator that you can use together. Take a look at the We-Vibe 4.
We-Vibe 4, Amazon
And check out this gorgeous cuff from Bijoux Indiscrets.
Désir Métallique Gold Metallic Mesh Handcuffs, Amazon
It also comes with a hot collar.
Désir Métallique Metallic Mesh Gold Collar, Amazon
This Sportsheets restraint system offers a world of possibilities.
The Original Sportsheets, Starting at Amazon
Another option is to look into sexual position enhancers. The Liberator is an old classic (and can I get a hell yeah for the hot curvy models on their website?).
Liberator Ramp, Amazon
Stuff their stocking with the Nerve Position A Day Playbook to help you both think of more ways to use these new purchases!
Nerve Position A Day Playbook, Amazon
Ozlgyi Inflatable Multifunctional Sofa comes with Handcuffs & Leg Cuffs that provide pleasure for both partners.
The Versa Chair also offers some interesting sex furniture options.
For a real splurge, take a gander at the Revel Essence chair, specifically and meticulously designed to make sex more intimate and creative.
Amazon is a great source for hilarious and naughty holiday greeting cards. Give your guy a hint at the presents that are in store for them with this card or this one. Want a super easy gift idea? In your card, write that you’ll grant them one sexual wish as a gift. If you’re on a budget, tell them you’ll perform a striptease, and include a CD of your favorite sexy songs.
Get your partner a subscription to a premium porn site that the two of you can enjoy together. X-art tends to be a favorite among my female clientele because of their attractive models and nice lighting. If you want porn that’s feminist and sex-positive, check out Bright Desire, which showcases real couples.
Maybe I’m biased here, but a sex therapy session can be a really fun gift to give. Tell your therapist beforehand that you want to use the session to get ideas for new positions, explore your sexual boundaries, or talk about how to act out a fantasy.
Sexy Gift Ideas For Yourself
To go along with your photo shoot, try splurging on some sexy new lingerie. This Glamorise is a showstopper.
Glamorize Women’s Full Figure Wonderwire Lace Bra
Don’t forget to treat yourself this holiday season!
One of my favorite Sexy Gift Ideas is to book a photography session. It’s a great way to boost your self-esteem and feel confident in your skin.